Cord Cutting
Annie's Story
Anton's Story
With every person you meet in your life a connection is made. A very special tie that is made on soul-level... something that cannot be seen with the naked eye.
This connection can be constructed of love, respect and joy. It would be so nice if all
relationships between people could consist of only that. Unfortunately you may experience
that between yourself and some people in your life there may exist a "not so comfortable"
connection. Maybe you experience some relationships filled with anger, sadness, fear,
disappointment, etc. You may notice the same things repeating time after time between you
and this person - the same fights, the same disappointments, the same blaming... These
emotions you notice in a relationship are stored in the form of spiritual ties between you
and the person you have the relationship with. Although you cannot see them, you will
definitely feel and see their effect on you and the other person. To picture these
spiritual ties, think of ribbons of beautiful light between you and someone else. When a
relationship gets polluted with negative emotions these spiritual ties become like puppet
strings or chains between you and this other person.Who will benefit from a cord cutting?
Every person who have had a love affair in the past will benefit from having a cord cutting. If you had sex with the person or even shared a deep kiss, a cord cutting is advised. Can't get a person or an incident out of your mind? The spiritual cords are the ones responsible for the person or the incident popping into your thoughts and a cord cutting will bring tremendous relief.
Ending a relationship or going through a divorce? Before just ending a relationship it is wise to first cut all negative cords and see if the relationship can maybe grow into a fulfilling and happy one.
Do you want to heal a current relationship? Cutting a cord does not mean ending a relationship. It means releasing problems that repeat endlessly because of a negative cord on soul-level.
Did someone you love dearly pass away? Does it sometimes feel that you can not seem to get over it? Even after a person's death the cords will still carry the sadness that is so difficult to release. After a cord cutting the love you had for the person will still remain, but the overwhelming sadness will be gone.
Victims of rape
Victims of hijack
Any person who was physically abused as a child or as an adult
Any person who was emotionally abused as a child or as an adult
Any person who got unpleasant surprises and betrayals
People who were part of a cult or destructive group who wants to move on, but finds it difficult
Annie's Story
Annie was raped when she was 17 years old by a friend of the family. After the rape she relived it in her mind frequently and suffered from depression for years on end. The emotions of that terrible day just would not stay in the past where they belonged. Annie read about Cord Cutting and decided after much thought to try it. Annie experienced great relief after the cord cutting and could embrace a life of happiness and freedom from the emotions and intense bad memories, a life that she so deserved.
Anton's Story
Anton was married to his best friend, Belinda. They were high school sweethearts and perfect for each other. Unfortunately as soon as they moved in together after the wedding Belinda did some things that upset Anton a lot. He could not understand how she could stay in bed until 07:50 and then rush to get to work at 08:00. The stress she created for herself frustrated him more and more every day. Anton was very grateful that he decided to have the cord cutting, because after that he experienced a lot of relief and was not bothered by Belinda's ways of doing things or her emotions.
Why can't I just pray for all the cords and emotions to go away?
Prayer is the most powerful way to connect to God and ask Him for help in our lives. The more we pray, the better. God can do miracles and He does every day. But He definitely is not a God of quick fixes. God asks us to take responsibility for our own lives. For example, when we pray for money, he will hear our prayers, but will maybe send us a job opportunity where we can earn more money. It is unfair to say that God does not hear our prayers when money does not drop from the sky.
When our child has a birthday coming up and we need a birthday cake for the party, it is good to put this at God's feet and humbly ask. Sometimes, out of the blue, somebody will actually come around and give us a cake. More often than not, however, (and through God's Grace), we will be able to go to the shop, buy the ingredients for a cake, mix it all together and bake the cake. And then we have to clean up afterwards!
God works in practical ways with our emotions and traumas too. Although He is a God of miracles, He put in place a specific way of healing wounds of the past and chose some very special people to help Him with that.
Prayer is always necessary in our lives to deal with our bad memories and emotions, but sitting back with our arms folded and waiting for everything to magically disappear could sometimes be not taking responsibility for a specific problem.
The next step is to find a qualified person to help you with your emotions and starting the journey to heal your life so that you can embrace the abundant life that was meant for you. You would not take your car to somebody who knows nothing of fixing cars, would you? So take your very special life to a trained therapist also.
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