Your world, your mirror
When we find our world and the people around us acceptable, we say our world is our mirror.
When the world around us is violent and destructive, we deny this and say: "Not true."
The world around us is our inner voice made audible. The people around us are saying
things to us that we believe inside ourselves. For example, an abusive husband telling his
wife how stupid she is every day, is sometimes saying to her exactly what she believes in
herself. She hears his words every day and does not stop him because deep within herself
is a wound. The husband is mirroring the deep wound in her exactly .
God has concrete ways of showing us things. Sometimes we recognize our good personality
traits and sometimes we recognize our lesser good ones. Within us there are traits that
we have not come to realize or accept about ourselves. God wants us to know ourselves
and when He sees that we have not come to see this "thing" in ourselves, He starts to help
us by sending us people with the same traits as ours as if saying: "My child, this is
you!"
We will know this is true when the person we are confronted with really creates an intense
emotional reaction in us.
The forgetful person will sometimes be surrounded by forgetful people and get very angry
with them, because he has not come to recognize the forgetfulness in himself. By finding
this forgetfulness that angers him so in others within himself, will help him to accept
himself.
A person who likes to control others around him will time and again find people who want to
control him and then he gets very upset if he has not recognized this in himself and
accepted it. God is saying: "Look my child, this is you! Accept and acknowledge yourself."
The child that comes home every day complaining about bullies may not have come to realize
the bullying part in himself and therefore gets angry with the others.
When you have really come to recognize this little part of yourself mirrored by others,
you have a chance to heal it. Jung said: "If you want to change your world, change
yourself."
Finding the hurt in yourself that is mirrored by others and healing it will leave you
with a whole new world around you. New people mean new lessons to learn about youself.
Find the little disowned parts in yourself by carefully looking at the people around you.